Friday, July 1, 2011

That's me!...no wait...THAT is

Women are traditionally regarded to be the emotional ones. 
The one who falls in love and ruins the plan. 
The one that is clingy and wants to spoon all night.
The one who wants children and the one who will stay home and play house.

Have you ever been Charlotte?  The cute and quaint girl who is just so darn lady like?  The one who wants her prince charming to sweep her off her feet and make her swoon...fall in love and just to live happily ever after.  Remember when you met that guy who almost had you thinking that you COULD BE THAT GIRL.  You can play house...you already know how to cook, you have a minor case of OCD and you've babysat once or twice in the past.  He promised you the moon and the stars and talked up a storm about the future.  He painted this beautiful picture that you just wanted to jump into and live in.

Have you ever been Miranda? Where your goals and ambitions came before anything and anyone else.  Your own drive had you on a natural high.  You would work from sun up to down because THIS was your passion...this IS what made sense. You say you got it, you got it..no doubt, there something about her.  Cos best believe, everything she got...she got herself.  And she is damn proud of that.  You come off bitchy but that's just because you know exactly what you want and how you want it.  Money is a funny motivator, isn't it?  And then one day you wake up with a loaded bank account and an empty bed...

Have you ever been Samantha?  SMH.  Must I go on?  Well, I suppose.  This is the type of gal that you become in...let's say...Vegas.  But this broad is FULL TIME.  She is able to cross gender lines and do things that we as women think only men can get away with.  Sure, she is looked at like a ho..but who's knockin her?  Her business is just that...hers.  Stay protected and do as you please...shit, how you please and with who you wanna please.  She is a cross between the complete opposite of Charlotte...love and marriage? Don't waste my time. and Miranda...self driven and money motivated.

Have your ever been Kerri? A downright hopeless romantic but a realist at the same time.  True love, "meant to be" and chivarly are not dying or dead, just rare.  Yes, you want what Charlotte wants...but real life.  No fairytales.  Yes, you have the ambition of Miranda but it does not dictate your life.  Yes, you understand the concept of "casual encounters" but not to the extent of Samantha.  But even with your head and heart as level as it can be, you still can not seem to get Mr. Big right.  You laugh, love and live on your own until that one day he follows you to Paris...or hopefully...Italy.

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